Field notes

Words on love, honestly.

New essays and member interviews every month. No dating advice from people who've never been on the app.

Jun 2026

Why timelines beat labels

"Casual" and "serious" mean nothing. A number of weeks means everything.

Coming soon

May 2026

The 30-day rule that changed everything

How a short expiration date can produce the deepest connections of your year.

Coming soon

Apr 2026

Talking to your matches about the end

A short guide to endings that leave both people better than you found them.

Coming soon